Thursday, October 17, 2013

Why Diets Don't Work!

Have you ever been on a really strict diet such as the atkins low carb or the ever so popular fat free craze that I followed in the 90's.  Well I have and let me tell you that was probably to crankiest I've ever been next to my last few weeks in my 3rd trimester of pregnancy.

Most people including myself in the past believe that if you restrict your diet for several months and loose a bunch of weight that you can go back to eating cheeseburgers, soda's, fried chicken and ice cream on a regular basis.  The problem with that belief is that while you deprive yourself of important calories and nutrients your body actually looses vital muscle mass.  Now you may ask what does muscle mass have to do with anything.  Well actually it has everything to do with it.  You see every pound of lean muscle tissue burns 6 calories an hour without doing anything at all. Fat tissue only burns 2 per hour.   When you go on strict diets you can loose up to 10 pounds of muscle causing your body to burn less calories thus resulting in rapid weight gain when you go back to old habits.

Of course we all know that in order to loose weight we need to eat better but I also believe that in order to loose weight the healthy way one should not deprive themselves.  Everyone wants to indulge in a rich chocolate dessert at times but the key is to not make it habitual.  It really is a lifestyle change to manage our portion sizes and eat more greens, whole grains, lean protein, and fresh fruit.  We also need to keep in mind that muscle building exercises are a must to get lasting results.  For folks 40 plus it is even more vital since that's when we begin to loose 1 percent of our lean muscle mass per year.  This is why I'm a huge fan of Yoga!  Excluding power yoga it is virtually non impact and works and strengthens every muscle of the body in just a short amount of time.

After I had my baby I had a good 40 pounds to loose.  Since I was breastfeeding, going on a strict diet was not in the cards.  I had never been in this position in my whole life since I had been so disciplined with eating well and working out.  I was some how hoping that I would be one of those woman who would just magically loose all of her baby weight in just a few months.  After 3 or 4 months I was barely even loosing 1 or 2 pounds a month and I began to get really frustrated.
One day after reading "The womanly art of breastfeeding" by the la leche league international, I came across this very subject.  Because I was breastfeeding going on a restricted diet to loose 10 pounds in a month was a big no no.  Fat tissue holds the majority of toxins as well and nutrients.  If I were to loose a large amount of weight in a short time I would risk passing the toxins into my milk which could possibly make my precious one ill.  It further stated that true healthy weight loss was about 1 to 2 pounds a month.  The more I thought about it the more sense it made.

We have become so accustomed in this modern day thinking to take a pill and "poof" we would be skinny.  If your on a journey like I am we have to keep in mind that babies weren't conceived and birthed over night.  If you look at nature and how plants grow, they do so at a slow pace.  So learning from nature we should be patient in the process of transforming our bodies.  We will then grow naturally into our new form without much resistance.

It has now been just over a year and a half since my son was born and I have about arrived to my pre-baby weight and It was a slow but painless progress. Sometimes we are steady and strong in the progression to our goal and sometimes we stumble. As long as we realize not to get discouraged or beat our selves up we can continue on the path and eventually we will reach our destination size.

So stay encouraged! You can do anything when you set your mind to it!




Dance like no one is watching!




Everyone has an innate desire and ability to dance.
 It's not just for "trained" dancers to have all the fun.

Every now and then when I am overwhelmed with stress and anxiety I go into a room, shut the door and crank up the music and just let loose.  It's not a perfectly choreographed routine.  I find the exact opposite is best. Messy and all over the place! 
 Something about moving our whole being in sequence with music is so healing to our soul.  

It's a beautiful expression of all our cells united by our mind and soul. Not only is it fun and creative it's also an excellent way to burn some calories.  In my 20's I remember going out all night on a weekly basis and dance up a storm.  It was the best shape I had ever been in and I hardly worked out.

 Somehow we've developed the thinking is our society that when you "grow up" and become a responsible adult that there is little or no room to express ourselves this way.  
Many I believe that regular dance sessions can in fact keep you feeling younger and keep your heart light. 
 So even if it's just moving side to side in your living room or going out to your favorite dance hall, go ahead and get out 
of your set and see how dance can set you free!

Friday, October 11, 2013

Veggie Tortilla Soup

Veggie Tortilla Soup


1 tbsp Sodium Free Granulated Chicken Bouillun
1 medium beet
3 large carrots
3 medium baking potatoes
1/2  red bell pepper
3 tomatoes
1 head broccoli
4 leaves kale
1/2 yellow onion
3 cloves garlic
1 tsp salt
1 tbsp cumin
1 bunch cilantro
Sharp cheddar cheese

This is my rendition of traditional tortilla soup 
that is loaded with antioxidant rich veggies!
I cook mine in a wok which cuts the cooking time 
in half and no oil is used.

Start by cutting the beet in small slivers 
Add about 3 cups of water and salt in the wok on high heat
Once boiling add beets and cover
Cut up carrots and potatoes in bite sized pieces 
Add to them in the wok with 2 more cups of water
Cut tomatoes, bell pepper, and garlic then add them as well

Now cut the steams of the broccoli in bite sized bits 
Set aside florets
Add the broccoli stems and chicken bouillon 
If need be add more water to keep it soupy 
Cut up the kale then garlic and add to soup

Once all ingredients are in add the cumin 
Simmer until all veggies are soft

While soup is simmering chop cilantro and shred cheese
When soup is done pour and top the cilantro, cheese and ENJOY!





Tuesday, October 8, 2013

Quick & Healthy Waffle Breakfast

Quick & Healthy Waffle Breakfast

 2 multi grain waffle's
  (I prefer gluten free)
 1 cup of yogurt
 1 cup of blueberries
 1 teaspoon of local raw honey

Toast the waffles top with 
yogurt blueberries and 
drizzle with honey.

There you have a quick and easy meal that is balanced and packed with nutrients!  This is even a winner for your picky little eaters!


Sunday, October 6, 2013

Wisdom and Blessings



One day I wondered in this amazing book store 
and saw this quote hanging in the ladies room.
It really got my wheels turning so I took a snap 
shot so I could remember it exactly.

After leaving I began to think back in my life 
and the more things started to click in my mind. 
 Worry aka fear of the future has always stolen my peace of mind. It literally stalled any chance of making headway in my spiritual growth and 
halted the progression of my dreams. I was
 paralyzed and no longer able to help myself 
let alone anyone else. By doing this a viscous cycle
 is then born leaving absolutely no room for serenity. 

After becoming quite annoyed 
of this state of being I began
 to retrain my mind to stay in the present 
and be about positive action.  
However, This is no simple task after spending 
a good part of a decade influenced greatly 
by fear and worry.
To make things simple I began to focus on
one worrisome issue at a time.
Instead of directly spiraling into worry
 I began to try the opposite
response when it entered my mind.
Over time I began to reverse my opinion 
or feelings on the mater which slowly ushered in
a little more peace of mind one thought
process at a time.

This is retraining your mind with your own power
which I consider a very precious jewel of wisdom.

Once I began to use this method of redirecting 
my thoughts I slowly began to realize 
that I had more room to give of myself.
I was no longer trapped in my own
 mind of worrisome torture.
Whatever seeds you plant and nurture in 
this life that which you will sow. 
The more that you give the more you
will gain.  
So plant a seed of love today and watch it grow!

Blessings to you and your loved ones!

Amber Lee Duke 2012